"I refuse to be my daughter's diary"

I have read a story about a mum who refused to get the homework that her daughter forgot.

Noelia had a group of WhatsApp with the rest of the parents from her daughters class. At first, it looks graet because they could be in contact and colud swap information about school. Then all the parents start to ask for their soon homework, to comments their personal marks and to send images from things that don't have interest and also take up memory. 

More than once Noelia have had to ask for some homework for her daughter. Finally she realizes that all the parents had become a full-time personal assistant for their children. When children had a problem only had to ask to her mother for an answer in the WhatsApp group. 

When Noelia daughters one day forget her math homework, Noelia refuse to ask to the group. That time she must learn the lesson and learn from her mistakes. 

Then Noelia decided to write the story in her blog and few days later she already had a lot of views. At the end of the week a million of people had read it!

For Noelia the article is to think about how the parents try to help their children. Because sometimes they think that are making something good for them but they are solving the problems avoiding that the children can learn and accept the consequences.

Ok, at first, when you read that "a mother doesn't want to help her daughter", seems strange and maybe you may think: what's a terrible mother! But probably she has a part of reason. 

Lately, some parents tray to help their children doing her homework. Maybe parents think that they are contributing to the education of her soon but not in the correct way. Making all what the childreb ask is not the best way because at the end children don't know do nothing. 

They would be too used to the help that makes them all.

In some cases it would seem a little silly. But it's true that there are a lot of parents that makes all what her children ask for. And at the end, the children who seems taht they did all very well doesn't know do nothing because all was made by her parents or someone. They wouldn't fed for themselves or accept the mistakes for learn from them, that it's the most important. 

Our parents always would be near us to help and give support. But is completely different hels and give support than make the thing that we hould do. Because, finally I think that the best education that we can recive from our parents is that wich we can be prepared for our independent lives. Those which we can learn to accept challenge by ourselves and be able to resolve our problems.